Sept. 10, 2020, 11:46 a.m.

Answering questions from the AskWomen forum

Sub Missives

I used to be a moderator of the AskWomen subreddit years ago, and it’s still my favorite place on Reddit. Most of the question-askers are men trying to “understand women,” and predominantly failing to do so because they don’t fully realize that women are humans, just like them. There are also many question-askers who are women themselves and are seeking perspectives and advice from other women on a plethora of issues. Overall it’s a really fascinating place – a relatively feminist “eye of the storm” in the center of the swirling cesspool that Reddit can be.

I’ve plucked a few questions from today’s AskWomen crop and will answer them here, because they’re thought-provoking and I like ‘em.

Have you ever been confused about whether the love you feel for someone is romantic or platonic? If so, how did you get to the bottom of it?

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