The other night, a hot dom touched me for nearly 2 hours, making me gasp, whimper, curse, moan, cry, and (eventually) come. Weirdly enough, they were located about 2,500 miles away from me at the time.
Let me explain… We were using a sex toy made by Lovense, which is (IMO) the best company currently making long-distance-compatible toys. With minimal effort and practically no technological know-how required, you can connect a Lovense toy to the company’s proprietary app on your phone via Bluetooth, and then invite a far-away lover to control the toy’s vibrations from their phone.
If it sounds like I’ve given this sales pitch a few hundred times, well, that’s because I have… but this piece isn’t an ad for Lovense toys (although they are very damn good!). Instead, I’d like to discuss how using this type of toy together can meaningfully deepen your connection with someone, can feel almost like they’re actually in the room with you, and can even help you get better at fucking each other, long before you ever do so IRL.
To be fair, though, I have sort of fucked this person IRL – they fingered me excellently on a park bench on our first date, before flying back to the west coast, leaving me thirsting for more of their touch. But there’s only so much you can glean about what someone likes in bed when you’re both fully clothed, shrouded in darkness, and, well, not in bed. They thoroughly unraveled me in that park, but I knew they could render me an even wetter, more desperate little mess, given half the chance to learn my body and my responses. And as I’ve written here before, there is absolutely nothing hotter to me than feeling someone get better at fucking me in real-time, purely because they’re so motivated to do so.