This month, my partner gave me an assignment: I had to choose a sex/kink skill I wanted to get better at, put together a list of educational resources focused on that skill, and then write a short essay summarizing my findings and suggesting some potential future steps we could take together to improve my skill level in that area. I chose touchin’ balls. Here’s what I wrote.
Although I’ve received copious compliments on just about every blowjob I’ve ever given, when it comes to touching balls, my skills are lacking. (#Humblebrag, #sorrynotsorry.) Sure, I graze and stroke them here and there, and give them occasional attention with my lips and tongue, but for the most part, I’ve long been too nervous about hurting a partner to really go ham on those ‘nads.
However, in reading and watching numerous resources on scrotal stimulation, I’ve picked up a few new ideas. Here are some of the key findings that emerged in my research: