In the lead-up to my wedding, which is in 2 days (!!!!), I’ve been doing something I wish everyone could and would do before getting married: talking to my therapist about it. A lot.
In my view, it’s not weird at all to second-guess yourself when making a decision of this magnitude. It doesn’t necessarily mean you’re making the wrong choice or that you’re conflicted; it just means you’re being careful and considered, and getting curious about your own motivations.
So with the help of my therapist, I’ve been working through a bunch of my baggage about marriage, my doubts about my own “marriageability,” my worst fears on the subject of long-term love. And with every session, I just become more and more certain: I am marrying the right person for me.
There are so many ways I know this – too many to fit here, too many to fit into the dozens of blog posts I’ve written about Matt, too many to fit into my wedding vows. So today I’ll just talk about one of the ways I know for sure that they’re the person I should be marrying.