March 3, 2024, 3:59 p.m.
The unique benefits of bisexuals dating other bisexuals
Exploring the healing, communication, and growth found in bi4bi relationships through personal experiences and reflections.
Sub Missives
I’m reading a romance novel right now about a “bi4bi” relationship* – that is to say, two bisexual people dating each other – and it’s making me reflect on this type of relationship in my own life, and how healing it’s been.
Last I checked, seven of the nine people I’ve officially dated are some flavor of non-monosexual (meaning that they are attracted to people of more than one gender), whether they call it bisexuality, pansexuality, queerness, or just [shrugs]. This is such a high proportion of my dating history that it can’t be a coincidence, even though it often felt like it at the time.