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‘Polyamorous’ does not necessarily mean ‘casual’

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November 21, 2025

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A love letter to sadists

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November 14, 2025

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Can you learn how to fuck someone well… at a distance?

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November 5, 2025

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One of the ballsiest emails I’ve ever received

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October 30, 2025

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What it feels like to be penetrated

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October 24, 2025

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Hickeys, bruises, & polyamory

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October 17, 2025

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Putting on the Kate Sloan costume

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October 9, 2025

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Your partner’s phone is private (& that’s a good thing)

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October 2, 2025

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Top 5 answers when someone says “Oh, I could NEVER be polyamorous!”

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September 25, 2025

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Jealousy vs. envy in polyamory: a crucial distinction

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September 21, 2025

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Love addiction, Tinder compulsion, & sitting with the feelings

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September 13, 2025

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In defense of scheduled sex

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September 7, 2025

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When the pussy-eating doesn't quite go as intended

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August 31, 2025

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Can a people-pleaser ever feel entitled to pleasure?

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August 22, 2025

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A no-strings-attached cunnilingus hookup with a much older man, part 1

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August 15, 2025

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Desire is like a finger trap

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August 10, 2025

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The terror & temptation of codependency in ‘Together’ (2025)

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August 3, 2025

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The rare case of the stone cis man

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July 27, 2025

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8 activities I find more intimate than sex

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July 20, 2025

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Voice notes are sexy (+ how to do ‘em)

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July 11, 2025

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