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I’ve been polyamorous for 10 years – here’s 10 pieces of advice

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July 17, 2026
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Things you can do that a sex toy can't

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July 11, 2026
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Is strap-on sex kinky?

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July 3, 2026
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Making people come… by letting them go down on me

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June 27, 2026
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The 7 emotional stages of being ghosted

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June 20, 2026
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Should you fantasize about someone you can’t be with?

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June 11, 2026
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5 sexy movies I’ve enjoyed recently

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June 6, 2026
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How is sex different in my thirties?

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May 29, 2026
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A man wildly impressed me with this conversational trick…

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May 22, 2026
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5 ways a pocket notebook can improve your sex life

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May 15, 2026
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5 questions to ask yourself about your obsessive crush

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May 9, 2026
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“Where do you like a guy to cum?”

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May 2, 2026
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Sex with each new person is a different experience

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April 26, 2026
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The most romantic thing you can do

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April 19, 2026
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I watched every Zac Efron movie

Zac Efron is a movie star, a triple threat, a cultural phenomenon, and my latest obsession. The funny thing is, I don’t even entirely know why.

That’s been the main question people have asked me, upon finding out that I was watching my way through the entire Zefron filmography: Why? He may be famous, but he’s no Tom Hanks or Cary Grant; he’s not exactly renowned for his acting chops, but rather, for the High School Musical movies that launched him into stardom decades ago. Prior to this deep dive, I myself mostly knew him for his leading role in the comedy 17 Again, which – although I adore it – most people would not define as highbrow cinema.

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April 9, 2026
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Shout-out to everyone who’s ever used a dildo on me

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April 3, 2026
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What’s more vulnerable, topping or bottoming?

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March 27, 2026
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3 ways to take responsibility for your responsive desire

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March 22, 2026
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So I had another threesome…

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March 14, 2026
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Thrift stores: a haven of gender exploration

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March 7, 2026
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