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What would you do to meet your twin flame?

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January 14, 2024
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The erotics of crying

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January 3, 2024
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My favorite products of 2023 (sex toys, clothes, self-care, and more)

’Tis the season to be materialistic, so I thought this would be a great week to talk about some of the products I loved most this year, across some of the categories that matter to me most. Let’s dive in…

SEX STUFF

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December 28, 2023
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The flirtiest time of year

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December 17, 2023
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Why do people want to believe in the hysteria myth so badly?

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December 9, 2023
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Why isn't clit worship more of a thing?

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December 3, 2023
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Bad sex is a two-way street

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November 22, 2023
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My best advice for maintaining a long-distance relationship

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November 11, 2023
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How I learned to love getting face-fucked

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November 5, 2023
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My bed still smelled like him

Heads up, this one gets a little porny.

Last week, I went on a date with one of those people whose pheromones just light up my brain. Science isn't even certain about the existence or effectiveness of pheromones in humans, but I don't have a better explanation for why some people's scent gets me all tingly and blushy, whether or not they're wearing cologne/perfume and whether they've just showered or just had sweaty, athletic sex with me.

Anyway. We had a lot of fun on our date. We talked for hours over 3 drinks (I know I'm really enjoying talking to someone if I find myself ordering more and more things just because I don't want to leave yet!). We went back to my place and kissed in my bed as I laid on top of him, grinding my whole body against his, savoring the sensuality of a great makeout. Then he stripped down and I gave him a slow, sensuous blowjob while he gripped my hair at the roots, guiding my head in an insistent rhythm that got me giddy and subspacey.

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October 28, 2023
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What cats can teach us about consent

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October 19, 2023
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Why "playing games" feels so damn good – but sabotages your relationships

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October 15, 2023
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Sexting with strangers

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October 6, 2023
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My "date me" doc

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October 1, 2023
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“A lot of the emotional is locked behind the physical”

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September 22, 2023
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Comedians kissing

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September 17, 2023
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When you wanna fuck them, but not date them

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September 7, 2023
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An incomplete list of things that have turned me on while on drugs

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September 3, 2023
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Why I suck at writing sexual bucket lists

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August 25, 2023
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Whoops, I'm into wet dreams now

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August 11, 2023
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